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How to use “~ほうがいい”, “~てもいい”, & “~たらいい” in Japanese


How to use “~ほうがいい”, “~てもいい”, & “~たらいい” in Japanese

Last week, Shiho explained how you can express your thoughts and make quotations in Japanese using the particle “と”. Did you get the chance to practice a bit?
In this week’s article we will take a look at Shiho’s video explaining the difference between “~ほうがいい”, “~てもいい”, & “~たらいい” and how to use each expression correctly.

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[About “~ほうがいい”, “~てもいい”, & “~たらいい”]

[About “~ほうがいい”, “~てもいい”, & “~たらいい”]

These expressions will enable you, the speaker, to give advice, warnings or suggestions to your listener, or to give/ask for permission. The meaning and use are a bit different for each expression, but they do have one thing in common: Since it is kind of impolite to give advice, make suggestions or give permissions to your boss or seniors (“Senpai”), you should never use them that way with them. However, asking for permission from a boss or Senpai is completely fine.
Simply remember that you have to take into consideration what your relationship is with the person you’re talking to before using these expressions.


First, let’s take a look at “~ほうがいい”. You construct “~ほうがいい” by using a verb + タ形 (ta-form, past-form) + “~ほうがいい”. You can use this expression to give affirmative advice, suggestions or warnings.
In more detail, “~ほうがいい” expresses that current conditions or actions should not be continued but should be exchanged by another course of action and do the opposite – rest until they feel better.

Example: A is obviously not feeling very well.
So you look at A and say:
You look ill. You should be getting some rest.

In this case, you would have looked at A and noticed they kept on working despite obviously not feeling very well, so you suggest to stop their current course of action.

Now, you might be wondering why “~ほうがいい” is built with the “タ形”, the past form of the verb. This is because the ta-form is not only used for expressing the past. It can also be used to express current conditions while simultaneously conveying the feelings of the speaker.
Therefore, if you use “~ほうがいい” without the ta-form, it stops being a suggestion or advice (conveying the speakers feelings), and can be used to simply compare two options in a more general statement.

A: いまやすむのと、あとやすむのとどちらがいいですか?
A: Taking a rest now or taking a rest later, which one is better?

B: いまやすむほうがいいです。
B: Resting now is better.

Now, if you want to use “~ほうがいい” with a negative verb, you do not use it in the past form, but you simply use the present negative form “~ないほうがいい”.

You shouldn’t eat too many sweets.



Next, let’s take a closer look at “~てもいい”. “~てもいい” is constructed by using a verb + テ形 (te-form) + “~てもいい” and signifies giving or receiving permission to do something. This expression can be used to give permission to others or yourself.

A: はいてもいいですか?
A: Can I come in?

B: はい、どうぞ。
B: Yes, please come in.

The above example is an example where the speaker addresses another person. Permission granted to yourself could look like this:

I’m on a diet, but it’s a birthday party, so I suppose it’s okay to eat lots of cake!

To use “~てもいい” in its negative form, you use the negative form of the テ形 + もいい. In this form, “~なくてもいい” signifies that something (e.g. an action) is not necessary.

I’m happy because I don’t have to go to work next Friday.


Lastly we will explain about “~たらいい”. While “~ほうがいい” is more along the lines of advice or even a warning, “~たらいい” conveys more of a suggestion or recommendation. With “~ほうがいい”, the speaker notices a situation they think cannot continue. With “~たらいい”, the speaker merely states what they are thinking without a strong opinion on the current situation.

Therefore, “~たらいい” can come across as a little cold. If you want to make a suggestion that sounds a bit more friendly, you can use “~といい” instead.

You look ill. Why don’t you take a rest?

You look ill. It might be better if you took a rest.

To a Japanese speaker, the second option sounds a lot more kind and friendly.

For both “~たらいい” and “~といい” there is no negative form.

We know all of these expression seem fairly similar, especially when translated to English, so keep practicing them until you notice the small differences in Japanese!

As always, don’t forget to check out the video on this class and tune in to our livestream every wednesday at 6pm (JST) for the real deal!

単語たんごリスト(Vocabulary list)
意味いみ Meaning
使つかかた Way to use something
使つかける To use properly, to distinguish
助言じょげん Advice, suggestion
忠告ちゅうこく Advice, warning
許可きょか Permission
すす Recommendation
共通きょうつう Commonness, shared point
先輩せんぱい Senior (at work or school)
上司じょうし Boss
肯定的こうていてき Affirmative
ぎゃく Opposite
選択肢せんたくし Choices
くらべる To compare

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